*Life*
...where anything goes...
Wednesday, February 22, 2012
Friday, February 17, 2012
Changing Habits....
This writing prompt is for:
I have a love/hate relationship with the kitchen. I love it because we always gather there for meals, chats, and just hang out and play games. It's warm and comforting. It is a safe place to tell your secrets, share your fears and enjoy a good meal or snack all at the same time.
I hate it because it is my place of weakness. It is where sugary cookies and salty cheese hang out. For many years I would sneak in at night and give in to my greedy friends. I would tell them my secrets and insecurities but they wouldn't reward me with wise words. They would give me guilt, high cholesterol and many added pounds to my petite figure.
Then I met my husband. We were a perfect match. His love was meat and potatoes, mine was juicy and mayonnaise laden BLT sandwiches. Then we had three children and passed down our love of food to them. We were showing the boys that love was food. Love was crispy toast, hot, greasy bacon and it enveloped our family like a bad disease. Until one day it clicked.
My husband came home from coaching football practice and showed his concern for our youngest. He always came in last during the laps and the other kids were starting to make fun of him. We had to stop this cycle before his health got really out of hand and make a lifestyle change.
It was hard at first. It was hard to remove the foods that we loved and craved from the house and switch them over to healthier versions. Fruit and veggies now became part of our beloved family while we "disowned" the bad eggs....bacon, white breads, potatoes and all the cookies and candies were banished from the house. We did it though. We made the change necessary for our family's health and we couldn't feel better, literally and physically!
My husband has lost 70 pounds, I have lost 20 pounds and the kids are no longer last in laps. Goodbye BLT's, hello veggie wraps!!!
Wednesday, February 15, 2012
GLEE - Full Performance of "I Will Always Love You" airing TUE 2/14
No matter who sings this song, I get goosebumps.....you know when you hear a song you always associate it with a time in your life...I will always remember a hot day in Puerto Rico driving down the road and this song came on the radio, making the first decision of many to follow, which led me to where I am today. sorry, a little emotional today :)
Friday, February 10, 2012
Reflections.....
This is a fictional piece of writing for http://writeonedge.com/
There is only one table occupied tonight. The weather channel has been on the t.v. behind the bar all afternoon covering the snowstorm. The city has come to a standstill. Liza gets up from one of the tables in the back of the restaurant where she has been filling salt and pepper shakers for the last half hour. She walks over to the bay window wondering what the hell has happened to her life.
"Wow", she thinks out loud. "Who would have thought I would be waiting tables at my age?" She thinks about all the "what ifs" she could have done and the "why's" that led her down this road.
Two years ago, she was a writer for the local newspaper, and a good one at that. She had the handsome, athletic boyfriend on her arm, going to all the jumping parties and the late night dinners at swanky restaurants. She had a cute townhouse that was decorated in the shabby chic theme that was all the rage. She was popular and having the time of her life. She didn't realize it then, but of course now she does, that as one drink was leading to others, her love of alcohol was leading her to addiction. And it was that addiction that led her here. To an empty restaurant, no money, no boyfriend and almost all of her friends gone. She threw it all away because she loved her precious booze more than herself. She chose alcohol over herself and everyone who cared about her. She didn't see what it was doing to her life and her career. She only saw the want and need of the warm liquid rolling slowly down the back of her throat and the immediate comfort it gave to her.
She looks at her reflection and wonders if she should try and call him again. "no", she whispers, it's to late and he will probably just hang up again for the hundredth time. Instead she dials another number. "Hello, Barb?" She pauses. "Yes, it's me. I was just having a tough time tonight and wanted to talk".
Liza sits down at the table picking up the salt shaker where she left off. With the phone in one hand and the salt in the other she thanks her sponsor for always being there for her......
There is only one table occupied tonight. The weather channel has been on the t.v. behind the bar all afternoon covering the snowstorm. The city has come to a standstill. Liza gets up from one of the tables in the back of the restaurant where she has been filling salt and pepper shakers for the last half hour. She walks over to the bay window wondering what the hell has happened to her life.
"Wow", she thinks out loud. "Who would have thought I would be waiting tables at my age?" She thinks about all the "what ifs" she could have done and the "why's" that led her down this road.
Two years ago, she was a writer for the local newspaper, and a good one at that. She had the handsome, athletic boyfriend on her arm, going to all the jumping parties and the late night dinners at swanky restaurants. She had a cute townhouse that was decorated in the shabby chic theme that was all the rage. She was popular and having the time of her life. She didn't realize it then, but of course now she does, that as one drink was leading to others, her love of alcohol was leading her to addiction. And it was that addiction that led her here. To an empty restaurant, no money, no boyfriend and almost all of her friends gone. She threw it all away because she loved her precious booze more than herself. She chose alcohol over herself and everyone who cared about her. She didn't see what it was doing to her life and her career. She only saw the want and need of the warm liquid rolling slowly down the back of her throat and the immediate comfort it gave to her.
She looks at her reflection and wonders if she should try and call him again. "no", she whispers, it's to late and he will probably just hang up again for the hundredth time. Instead she dials another number. "Hello, Barb?" She pauses. "Yes, it's me. I was just having a tough time tonight and wanted to talk".
Liza sits down at the table picking up the salt shaker where she left off. With the phone in one hand and the salt in the other she thanks her sponsor for always being there for her......
Pick four numbers, each between 1 and 10.
Write them down so you remember.
Then take the four elements and combine them into a short story.
All four you picked MUST be your main elements, but you can add in other characters, settings, times and situations. 500 word limit.
I picked:
4. a waitress
4. a restaurant
9. in the middle of a snowstorm
7. Reminiscing on how things change
Friday, February 03, 2012
Tuesday, January 31, 2012
"Bestie"
It was the end of summer in 1982. I was officially a college freshman and driving to Virginia from Massachusetts to embark on my "college years". I was scared to death. Finally after getting settled in and meeting my roommate (who left after the first year) I fell into a group of girls from another dorm and we just clicked. I moved over to that dorm and we became known as "3BC", our little nickname for ourselves. We all got along great but we had our "besties". Mary was mine.
Mary was from Norton, Va. and like many other of the girls went home on the weekends to spend time with her family and boyfriend. I tagged along sometimes and other times she would stay at school and we would laugh, goof off and just hang out. I didn't get to graduate from my class because I didn't do very well and had to stay another year, but that is another story. Mary and the gang graduated and moved on but never out of my life. We both got married and then her husband was in a horrible car accident. That was rough but we made it through. She remarried and I was asked to be in her wedding and "3BC" was back together. I moved to Puerto Rico with my husband and had to hear the tragic news of her brother's death due to a fire in her childhood home. She knew I couldn't make it home to be with her and she understood. We both had children two years apart but on the same date, I thought that was the coolest thing! Then another tragedy struck. Her other brother died due to an illness. She stood strong and made it through this dark period in her life. I have never met anyone stronger.
Mary now lives in South Carolina and while finances don't allow us to visit often, we did get a chance to visit a couple of summers ago while we were driving through her area and it was the quickest but best way to end a family vacation! We may not see each other often or speak on the phone but when we do, it is like we just spoke yesterday and she still makes me laugh like no one else!!
Mary is my idol and my hero and I am so proud to call her friend.
Thanks to Write on Edge for this writing prompt.......
Mary was from Norton, Va. and like many other of the girls went home on the weekends to spend time with her family and boyfriend. I tagged along sometimes and other times she would stay at school and we would laugh, goof off and just hang out. I didn't get to graduate from my class because I didn't do very well and had to stay another year, but that is another story. Mary and the gang graduated and moved on but never out of my life. We both got married and then her husband was in a horrible car accident. That was rough but we made it through. She remarried and I was asked to be in her wedding and "3BC" was back together. I moved to Puerto Rico with my husband and had to hear the tragic news of her brother's death due to a fire in her childhood home. She knew I couldn't make it home to be with her and she understood. We both had children two years apart but on the same date, I thought that was the coolest thing! Then another tragedy struck. Her other brother died due to an illness. She stood strong and made it through this dark period in her life. I have never met anyone stronger.
Mary now lives in South Carolina and while finances don't allow us to visit often, we did get a chance to visit a couple of summers ago while we were driving through her area and it was the quickest but best way to end a family vacation! We may not see each other often or speak on the phone but when we do, it is like we just spoke yesterday and she still makes me laugh like no one else!!
Mary is my idol and my hero and I am so proud to call her friend.
Thanks to Write on Edge for this writing prompt.......
Monday, January 30, 2012
Monday Movie Review...
I really thought this was going to be a cheesy predictable movie. I was wrong! It was a little predictable but damn if I didn't fall in love with those chimps! I loved the relationship between James Franco and his father who had Alzheimer's and what his son was doing to help him. To me, this is what a movie is all about, entertaining, thought-provoking (not in the real deep sense but really about disease, evolution and love) and best all, Chris didn't fall asleep! 2 Thumbs-up!
Friday, January 27, 2012
Writing Prompt: Personification
Slam, Dunk
He's late today. That is not a good sign. I know from previous experiences that he gets all flustered
when he is late and takes it out on me. Uh, oh, there he is. Hmm, he doesn't look all that grumpy today.
Quiet, quiet, here he comes...ugh! his hands are freezing! Here we go...bounce, bounce...his hands aren't to
tense, so that is a good sign. Bounce, bounce, he's laughing now with his friends, another good sign. He's passing me back and forth gently. They all seem to be in a good mood today. I hope I was wrong about his mood. Well here's the final test, he shoots, WHOOSH!!! He (or I, however you want to look at it), made the basket! High five's all around! Oh yeah, today will be a good practice!
~~This is my first time doing a prompt from http://writeonedge.com/2012/01/remembered-personification/, so forgive me if it is a little short, I'm a little nervous, LOL!! And yes, my terrified little guy is my son's basketball.
Wednesday, January 25, 2012
I need to practice this...
Resentment hurts you, not them. Always forgive people, even if they never ask for your forgiveness. Don’t do it for them – do it for you. Grudges are a waste of happiness. Get that unnecessary stress out of your life right now, and move forward. - via http://www.marcandangel.com/
Monday, January 23, 2012
She should have been a you-tube star!
This poor woman at the wrestling tournament yesterday...she came walking into the gym carrying her turkey sandwich and tripped, slipped and did a face plant right into the sandwich! If only someone had filmed this and put it on you-tube, she would have been an overnight sensation! Probably over a million hits, would have done the morning talk show circuit, Ellen would have had her on her show and she would have had her 15 minutes of fame! And her poor mortified son.....she is probably sore today and has a bruise on her ankle where she twisted it...yes. she does. That poor woman was me! Sorry for embarrassing you Zak, and your damn father hasn't stopped laughing!!!
Friday, January 13, 2012
Monday, January 09, 2012
Monday Movie Review...
I'm a little late to the party but My Big Fat Greek Wedding was adorable!! I felt so bad for her while she was preparing for the wedding, the bridesmaids dresses were hideous, the favors (those almond candy thingies), so outdated and I cringed when I saw her in her wedding dress! But she was a trooper and made the best of it!
The best scene in the movie however is when her aunt is telling the groom's parents about the cyst on her neck, and she had it removed and the Doctor said it had teeth and a spine and was her twin!!! I about peed in my pants!!! If haven't seen this little gem yet, hurry! You will love it!
The best scene in the movie however is when her aunt is telling the groom's parents about the cyst on her neck, and she had it removed and the Doctor said it had teeth and a spine and was her twin!!! I about peed in my pants!!! If haven't seen this little gem yet, hurry! You will love it!
Tuesday, January 03, 2012
Happy 2012!!
Happy New Year!
Well, so far it started out crappy! Out of the blue, I was knocked down by a horrible cold and spent the whole weekend in bed! So, up today and started off with a brisk walk with Chris. We have been out of our routine cause of his bad back and the Holidays so we are regrouping and getting back on track. Zak was home for 2 weeks and is now back at school and hopefully well enough to wrestle. I struggle with him being in college. I guess it is because I was there once and I know first hand what goes on there. I know I need to let him go but I am such a worrier.....
Our New Year's resolutions include keeping on track with our weight loss and getting organized, both in the house and with our finances. Wish us luck.......
The kids are all back at school, thank God! So off to tackle laundry, cleaning and back to the library today!
Well, so far it started out crappy! Out of the blue, I was knocked down by a horrible cold and spent the whole weekend in bed! So, up today and started off with a brisk walk with Chris. We have been out of our routine cause of his bad back and the Holidays so we are regrouping and getting back on track. Zak was home for 2 weeks and is now back at school and hopefully well enough to wrestle. I struggle with him being in college. I guess it is because I was there once and I know first hand what goes on there. I know I need to let him go but I am such a worrier.....
Our New Year's resolutions include keeping on track with our weight loss and getting organized, both in the house and with our finances. Wish us luck.......
The kids are all back at school, thank God! So off to tackle laundry, cleaning and back to the library today!
Friday, December 30, 2011
Wednesday, December 28, 2011
Tuesday, December 27, 2011
Friday, December 23, 2011
Quote of the day:
"Write it on your heart that every day is the best day in the year."
~Ralph Waldo Emerson
~Ralph Waldo Emerson
Wednesday, December 21, 2011
Quote of the day:
"The true secret of Happiness lies in the taking a genuine interest in all the details of daily Life..."
~~William Morris
~~William Morris
Tuesday, December 13, 2011
Quote of the day:
“The secret to making your holiday inspiring is actually quite simple. Be inspiring yourself. As with any change, you must be the change you want to see in others.”
— Deepak Chopra
Monday, December 05, 2011
OMG! It's December!!
I love this time of year. I hate this time of year!! It is so busy! Basketball has started, wrestling has started, the holiday season has started and wait for it.....I am working! Granted, it is only 2 days a week but my God, I'm exhausted! Just filling in at dad's store but between that and all the driving around for the kids and teacer conferences and this and that.....well, I guess there could be worse things in life so I will stop complaining. Happy Monday!!!
Wednesday, November 30, 2011
Me from A_Z
A. Age: 47
B. Bed size: Queen
C. Chore that you hate: Unloading the dishwasher
D. Dogs: Love 'em
E. Essential start to your day: A walk with my hubby
F. Favorite color: red
G. Gold or Silver: Gold.
H. Height:5' 21/2"
I. Instruments you play: none.
J. Job title: Stay at home mom
K. Kids:3
L. Live: Cheshire, Ma.
M. Mother’s name: MaryAnn (Meim)
N. Nicknames:Lil' m
O. Overnight hospital stays: just when I had the kids
P. Pet peeves: hypocrites
Q. Quote from a movie: Maybe a Dingo ate your Baby!
R. Right or left handed: right
S. Siblings: older Bro and younger sis
T. Time you wake up: usually around 5:30
U. Underwear: Breezies
V. Vegetable you hate: Beets
W. What makes you run late: Anything and everything! One thing leads to another...
X. X-Rays you’ve had: ankle, elbow
Y. Yummy food that you make: Shrimp Creole and my fav, breaded shrimp on the Grill
Z. Zoo animal: Gorilla!!!!!
B. Bed size: Queen
C. Chore that you hate: Unloading the dishwasher
D. Dogs: Love 'em
E. Essential start to your day: A walk with my hubby
F. Favorite color: red
G. Gold or Silver: Gold.
H. Height:5' 21/2"
I. Instruments you play: none.
J. Job title: Stay at home mom
K. Kids:3
L. Live: Cheshire, Ma.
M. Mother’s name: MaryAnn (Meim)
N. Nicknames:Lil' m
O. Overnight hospital stays: just when I had the kids
P. Pet peeves: hypocrites
Q. Quote from a movie: Maybe a Dingo ate your Baby!
R. Right or left handed: right
S. Siblings: older Bro and younger sis
T. Time you wake up: usually around 5:30
U. Underwear: Breezies
V. Vegetable you hate: Beets
W. What makes you run late: Anything and everything! One thing leads to another...
X. X-Rays you’ve had: ankle, elbow
Y. Yummy food that you make: Shrimp Creole and my fav, breaded shrimp on the Grill
Z. Zoo animal: Gorilla!!!!!
Saturday, November 26, 2011
Friday, November 25, 2011
Friday, November 11, 2011
Thank a Veteran Today!
Thanks to all who have served this great country of ours....to you and your families ...much love...
and because of the date today....
do your job, cause I wished BIG!
and because of the date today....
do your job, cause I wished BIG!
Thursday, November 03, 2011
Wednesday, November 02, 2011
Tuesday, November 01, 2011
Happy Halloween!
Sometimes costumes are better in your head than real life but hey, it was a cute idea.....
Then there are other ones that work really well!!
Then there are other ones that work really well!!
Friday, October 28, 2011
Saturday, October 22, 2011
Cat Fights, football games, meetings with teachers....Whew what a week!!
This has been one hell of a crazy mixed up week! It all started with some crazy Mom Drama at the football games this past Sunday.....one mom said the other mom yelled at her for "concession" stuff, I repeated this to another mom and bashed same mom for not doing her part, then that mom went to first mom told her, she then came back at me, then went to first mom and had a huge fight and it had to be broken up......God I love concession stand Drama!!! It's all confusing but when you see it on the big screen in a few years, I promise, you will get it! LOL! Then we all "unfriended" that one mom on Facebook and it has been a very freeing experience! I reread this part and it sounds like I was the firestarter but that is SO not the case, I was the one attacked, just for the record.....
Watched a bunch of Football this week.....Sam lost his game but they played great and Christopher's team had a big win......then Hoosac Valley game last night......they won!
Then had our big meeting with the Principal of the school and Sam's two teachers. Chris blasted one of the teachers( but it was well deserved) and we put a new plan in place for his behavior and low and behold he hasn't got one written behavior form sent home this week! See what a little communicationand discipline on the teachers part does.....
ok...so this week down on to next..........
Watched a bunch of Football this week.....Sam lost his game but they played great and Christopher's team had a big win......then Hoosac Valley game last night......they won!
Then had our big meeting with the Principal of the school and Sam's two teachers. Chris blasted one of the teachers( but it was well deserved) and we put a new plan in place for his behavior and low and behold he hasn't got one written behavior form sent home this week! See what a little communication
ok...so this week down on to next..........
Tuesday, October 11, 2011
Thursday, October 06, 2011
Saturday, October 01, 2011
Two Birthday shoutouts!!
Happy birthday to my crazy, fun-loving nephew John, Charles...I love you Bob!! And Today to my other beautiful niece, Mariana!
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